Better method call error messages
Rebase/continuation of #71827
~Based on #92360~
~Based on #93118~
There's a decent description in #71827 that I won't copy here (for now at least)
In addition to rebasing, I've tried to restore most of the original suggestions for invalid arguments. Unfortunately, this does make some of the errors a bit verbose. To fix this will require a bit of refactoring to some of the generalized error suggestion functions, and I just don't have the time to go into it right now.
I think this is in a state that the error messages are overall better than before without a reduction in the suggestions given.
~I've tried to split out some of the easier and self-contained changes into separate commits (mostly in #92360, but also one here). There might be more than can be done here, but again just lacking time.~
r? `@estebank` as the original reviewer of #71827